Comments on: Why Do Young Women Fall In Love With Older Men?

By: Johnny Bevaqua

Johnny Bevaqua — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 13:28:07 +0000

I’m 52. I’ve loved women twice my age and women half my age. Love is love. The people who criticize it are all wrong for saying age or anything else, such as in days of yore when mixed race relationships were frowned upon, is wrong, or doomed to failure. There is not enough love in the world, why on earth would anyone condemn it? For those of you who want to condemn me, I’m in a relationship with an intelligent, attractive 19 year old Asian woman, who I love more than any woman I have ever met! She is my soul mate.

By: Tanya

Tanya — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 23:19:22 +0000

Babyblu:

Grow some guts – lose the weight and start getting your own interests. LOSE weight and your gonna gain some confidence. Why do women let themselves go ? I have never understood that!

By: Tanya

Tanya — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 23:16:22 +0000

WiseFemale: Alot of your observations seem spot on but when you describe the kid you sound like such a critical b*tch. And bitter to boot too. The guy was an ass to marry the plain jane and marry whom he was attracted to; end of matter. Dont marry for anything but for love, understanding AND attraction.

By: Ava

Ava — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 21:00:00 +0000

My youngest daughter who is 14 is head over heels over a married man in his 70’s. This was a bit surprising (obviously!) but after a while it all made sense to me. She is a very sensitive little thing, extremely bright in terms of schoolwork (skipped six grades in school), and always associates with people in their early twenties. However, she is naive when it comes to life matters and totally admires people who release an aura of control over their life and who seem to know exactly what they need to do.

By: sam

sam — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 22:13:44 +0000

hi kirk C,
ive nothing to say here, just go on and tell all the truth. their is no problem their. just let her understand that it was just nothing and mind you friend she was just jealous. i admire you for your principle not touching your woman until marriage. you’re the man cuz in this age if men were to be sure to marry their lovely woman they dont think twice to do that thing. becuz in the back of their mind they will get married so why wait. and about you;re getting aroused thats natural as they say in psychology were alived and so does our senses and that includes being aroused. we christians wee not except in that of course were are the same as other people but the difference i we beleive in Jesus Christ. you feel that kind of feeling becuase you love your woman, if you dont then why would you feel that. just spend a couple of days to think over things again as they say love is patient. ohh! you know go over with youre bible their you could read some lines for love if im not mistaken it should be on corinthians. just be patient to her my friend.

By: KirkC,

KirkC, — Mon, 25 Jan 2010 02:24:51 +0000

Hi Sam,
Its Kirk,
I was just thinking about you,
and wondering what your doing?
I was going over thngs last night with my girlfriend hon,
i was on the internet and thispic came up of this other girl in town, I guess it was that silly facebook stuff,
so i wanted to clear it off and she though there was something on there and i wanted it off so she didnt see it , she starts to gwet paranoid over nothing like its my business what i do in this PC
but i was telling her I include her on things too whatever im doing to include her so she feels cared for and if i need her on something,
I had to talk her out of it for an hour and then she gets huffy with me about nothing as there wasnt anything to be sam,
Ive had this alot with her Sam and I get tired of it really quick,
Sam what do i do,?
shen had bad things happen with her first hubby and her second worked all the time so there wassnt any time to do thngs or go see things,
I feel aroused all the time Sam Im not gonna lie to you hon,
I meean i know Im not supposed to think about this stuff and be with a christian woman till were married and ITS MAKING ME NUTS Sam,
Please help me on this ok,
kirk,

By: babyblu

babyblu — Sun, 24 Jan 2010 20:43:45 +0000

I’ve met this certain man when I was 22yrs and he was 35yrs, but he was married and I had a boyfriend. I did not think twice about him, my only concern was doing music and him producing me.

My boyfriend stop supporting me and the older man became extra friendly, but it was attention I craved. He claimed they were seperated and I felt confussed, but shortly afterward we became intiment. Soon afterwards music waspushed back and all of a sudden we’re now a couple.

I had no choice but to brake up with my boyfriend and adventually his divorce was final, but thats when the drama began! My family got involved and I kept doing immature things he couldn’t undrestand, just being a 22yr. We argued everyday and I began to feel like I wasn’t good enough. I lost my famiily, my friends,and my sense of self all to be the wife he tryed to mold. He says I’m selfish and not supportive. Two years later we have kids now and I gained weight, and we still have problems.

By: WiseFemale

WiseFemale — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 17:06:53 +0000

John, you don’t say anything about your older wife’s response to your relationship with this younger, other woman. Have you separated from your wife? Getting a divorce? Do you have an open marriage? ??

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 12:04:05 +0000

hey, im 17 and live in a completely different country to a man i am completely obsessed with. i met him a few times, but we have talked since and i cant forget him. i need advice to forget him, or advice to get him. problem is he is 34.. its bad and im sure if he felt anything the same he wouldnt be able to do anything about it, because he knows my family and its illegal. ADVICE PLEASE!

By: sam

sam — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 08:40:18 +0000

hi Kirk C,
oh je,je,je, i did not mean to say pessimistic but what i mean is “BE OPTIMISTIC IN ALL THE THINGS THAT YOU DO”. sorry about the wrong words that i’ve used.